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Hello,
I am really glad I found this website because I have been wanting to find a someone who is open to adopting an adult (me). I know the ideal is to adopt and infant or young child, but I believe there are some people who wish to form bonds of love even if it is with an older child.
About me, I am 26 years old and I grew up with a mother who had some kind of stunted emotional development. Many people who know her well describe her as someone who is like a young child, almost like an 11 or 13 year old, and it was incredibly difficult to grow up with a mother like that (I could never express the distress I have felt accurately in words, so I will not try to do so at length, here). I always wondered why my mother acted so immaturely and why I couldn't have a strong, maternal figure who I respected, who could guide me/teach me things, and who I could depend on. It has been a source of a lot of pain in my life, and although there is not much I can change about my relationship with my birth mother, I am now reaching out to this community to see if there is anyone who has thought about adopting an adult daughter.
Just so you know, I think that my struggles with my mom made me want to be nothing like her, and I worked incredibly hard to try to become a strong, independent and hardworking woman. I actually graduated from an Ivy League university in the top 5% of my class and I am hoping to attend law school in the fall. (I have been accepted! and am waiting on decisions from a few more law schools).
I am also living in New Jersey right now but may move when I go to law school. I am not looking for any financial support of any other form of dependency, and I would not be a residential adoptee, obviously. I am really just looking for someone who has wanted a daughter who I can care for and love as the mother, like I have always wanted. I am also not idealistic--I know no relationship is perfect, but I truly have a lot of love to give to a mother figure and hope that we can support each other and, perhaps, fulfill each other's lives a bit more through this adoption.
If this sounds like something you would be interested in, please email me at perksofbeingasunflower2@gmail.com
I really look forward to hearing from you, and I am truly glad that I found this community.
Best,
Jean
Last update on April 3, 9:01 pm by Eunie Jean.
Hello, I am 28 from the UK south wales looking for a new family. I've had it pretty rough been in foster care when I was 12 and have been emotionally neglected all my life. I currently live with my dad and he doesn't want me to do anything with my life apart from staying on benefits and I don't want that.
About me:
Height 6ft 2"
Wears glasses
Addicted to gaming
Very timid
Young looking
Loves music
My email address is deatheater2037@gmail.com I hope that someone that's willing to take me will read this all I want is a loving family environment and parents that are not afraid to discipline if I do something wrong. I need stability and emotional support.
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Hi I'm alfadzrie asakil I'm 16 year old male and I live in Philippines I just want a parent a happy family and a good life I want you to adopt me because I'm really sad for my future career and life i don't know it's a long story but I can be part of your family.if you want to talk to me just email me:xname960@gmail.com
Last update on August 29, 11:21 am by Aladdin Asakil.
Anyone willing to be my mom, am 26 from Kenya and all I need is afriendly person, not necessarily to be adopted... My email contact me on debbiekemmie99@gmail.com
I'm really happy that I found this website because I wanted to find someone who is open to adopting an adult aka me. I know normally adoption is about adopting an infant or a young child. Though I believe there are some individuals who wish to form bonds of love and care even if it's with an older child. Soo..
Hi there! My name is Glenda and I’m 16 old (turning 17 next month) and I’m a Filipino but I was born here in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. I’m looking for someone to adopt me as my parents are separated; my dad abandoned me and my mom when I was just 2 years old. And my mom works as a helper here in Saudi. Financial support isn't the reason why I’m here. I’m here because ever since I was little, I’ve always wanted to move out of my country. I can’t be myself here. I am currently at 12th grade so I will be going to college after I graduate but going to college isn't really on my plan right now since I don't think I can afford it. But I just honestly want someone who I can be fully comfortable with and a mother figure, I guess I am in desperate need. I’m not open to sharing my background with the world but if someone is willing to be a mother figure to me I am willing to tell you all about it. I am a pretty shy type kind of person at first but I'm really a spontaneous, a loving & caring, passionate and adventurous person deep inside. I also love playing and learning instruments such as the guitar, bass, piano, ukulele, and drums.
Please contact me here: delapenaglenda17@gmail.com
Thanks for reading.
Have a lovely day/night, wherever you are!
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Hi Guys,
am really really happy that i found a community like this where i can tell anyone to adopt me as his/her son. i believe i god, so the parents. i know am older to be taken for adoption.
about me,am from India, am Lucky, means am not really lucky, my name is Lucky(my nick one). am 25 years old. i grew up having no one around me, rather than some slum people where i raised. After getting older i got to know a thing in my life that how a good educated family can matter for a child for its future.
i started to work for my career when i was at the age of 10 i guess. each and everyday i remember of my life from the time i was properly able to understand our society, people, environment. I always miss a guide in my life, like a mother or father. Who can taught me how i can build myself in this selfish society. But am not that lucky.
By myself i learn so many things and you cant even imagine that now am a UI/UX Designer(Free Lancer) with any qualification or certification. Am having some curiosity to learn things so that i can do better for my future. But always i have a huddle, and that is a family, who can support me in anyway.
am living in Bangalore, India. working as a delivery boy. having some dreams in my eyes. wanting a family. want to take care of my parents. want to live the moment i never got in life. in sort i need a super family who can addopt me.
i rather believe that no one is perfect in their life. but having love, care, affection , man those feelings i just want to feel.
i will be so so happy if anyone adopt me, i cant even express that feeling.
I will wait for someone's reply.
contact me on mail :- skr.bglr@gmail.com
or in Whatsapp : +917008967182
Lucky.
Hi Carol
Did you ever find that mother figure?
Best wishes
Pauline
Hi
I am looking to adopt s mother. I am 47 years old, married with a husband and 2 amazing kids aged 10 and 14.
Despite years of me trying and mots of heartache my own mother doesnt make sny effort with us
I live near Glasgow and would've to have a caring mum and gran in our lives.
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Hi I am charles from Africa and 27 of ageI am looking for parents to adopt me as their child.i am humble and down to earth level and also have lots of ambitions and love is the greatest thing of all. charlesepii001@gmail.com is my email and I will be glad to hear from you.
Hello! I’m 22 years old female. I’m looking for a family to adopt me . If anyone interested please let me know :)
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My name is Keisha I’m 23 I have a fiancé and two children 4 and 3 wks I’m looking for a mother figure. I have a mom but she’s never actually been there for me emotionally or took time to understand me. I moved with my aunt in middle school who was very strict and mean. I just want someone that has a motherly feel who I can connect with on a mother/daughter level. If you’d like to get to know me just reach out and we can talk more.
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I'm really happy that I found this website because I wanted to find someone who is open to adopting an adult aka me. I know normally adoption is about adopting an infant or a young child. Though I believe there are some individuals who wish to form bonds of love and care even if it's with an older child. Soo..
I dont want to say to much but if any one wants to adopt an adult in central london please contact me
On kalito_1984@hotmail.co.uk
Hi! My name is Octavia I’m 19 and live in sweden.
I’m looking for a mother figure or someone who can adopt me. My parents have been divorced since I was 5 years old. My dad started abusing me, but when I got half siblings on his side with his new wife he didn’t touch them hej just enjoyed doing things to me. I stopped living with him 10 years later but I still have ptsd. My mom is a nurse and is very lovingly to everybody including my abusive little brother, just not to me. I have never felt loved by any of my parents or my family, and I really wish I hade a mother who loved me but i dont. My parents live 100m from each other so I never feel safe. He stands outside my window sometimes so I have just stopped going outside.She’s verbally abusing me and I really don't feel safe or at home here. So summary: I have ptsd and social anxiety but I’m a kind and honest person and I hope you can give me a chance.
If there's a real adult who’d be willing to adopt me or just talk, please contact me on this mail: octaviaohrman@gmail.com
I hope to here from you, god bless you<3
Would love to connect and learn more about your journey Keisha. I hope to hear from you soon :) My email is alden@crybaby-media.com
My name is Keisha I’m 23 I have a fiancé and two children 4 and 3 wks I’m looking for a mother figure. I have a mom but she’s never actually been there for me emotionally or took time to understand me. I moved with my aunt in middle school who was very strict and mean. I just want someone that has a motherly feel who I can connect with on a mother/daughter level. If you’d like to get to know me just reach out and we can talk more.
Thanks
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Hi my name is leighchell, i am 17 years old turning 18 this may 12, 2020. i am suffering anxiety and depression now because i really wanna continue studying but no one will support me in my financial needs. if you are searching for a daughter please pick me! i badly need a parent now. btw, im from Philippines.
same here....
Hello I am 19 years and my name is Javen, am from Lagos, Nigeria. I have a separated family, I lost my dad in a car accident when I was 2 and my abandoned me to my father's family where they maltreat and abuse me.
am really depressed and feeling suicidal, I want to continue my education. I lack financial needs
I just want a very kind, caring, loving and a good mother here. Please contact me on my mail horsunimole2@gmail.com