any ideas?

I`m a little bit confused. I know, that there will be a lot of firsts, but, on the other hand how can I cope with a child`s (not iridescent) past?My friends have adopted a 7 years old boy from India, and to tell you the truth, if they had an opportunity to give him back to the orphanage, they would do it. They don`t know handle him, noone has influence with him. This boy is not naughty, no. He behaves himself as if he still lives in the orphanage, as if he is by himself. It`s awful, when parents want to take care about their child,but he doesn`t need their love.