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As a birth mom I was blessed that my bson's parents were welcoming when I found them. My bson was 31 at that time which may make a difference at least for some families. As we began our reunion, both of us were very clear that I was not replacing his adoptive parents nor was that my desire or intent. We have developed what we call a comfortable and healthy relationship. I remember writing his mom a note for Mother's Day in the first year in which I shared what I hoped for him to have as a mother when I placed him for adoption and expressed my appreciation that he has a mother he loves very much.I don't know how helpful my story is for others. I should also tell you that my bson was good at inviting both his afamily and his bfamily to family gatherings which helped us get to know each other. Blessings,Kathy
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