Too much to hope for?

I think people too often hope for a happy or healing reunion, when- more often than not- they get let down, if not completely rejected.Happy reunions are very incredibly rare, nearly slim to none basing it on the overall odds, despite the popularly viewed happy posts on forums like this.People wanting to establish contact with some long-lost biological link should expect to be let down, if not far worse (completely heartbreaking). If it actually is a successful search and a successful reunion, they'll be abnormally lucky.