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Hey I'm in a long distance relationship. Everything was going well, and we had planned to meet later in the year. However I have a problem, that whenever I feel like someone is going to leave, I leave them first. This may be due to the face that I was adopted. Long distance works well for me because I can avoid the intimacy that I fear so much. When this girl went offline for a couple of days, I decided to remove her from my social media media accounts. I now miss her. Am I crazy?
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I don't think you're crazy. I do, however, think you have some things to sort out before you can handle a healthy relationship. First off, I want you to know that you are loved. I know that because I am a birth mom, and I love my birth daughter with all my heart. Secondly, I would definitely talk with a counselor to help you work through some of these tough adoption related feelings, so you can feel more comfortable being close to others.Best of luck
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