Worried We Will Be Disqualified

Without knowing all the details, it is hard to say how things will go, but it does sound as if your husband acted in the best interests of his child, first by trying to get custody, then by agreeing to having his child adopted by a grandparent to bring permanence and stability to her life, and finally by maintaining a relationship with her. He sounds like a decent person who will be able to relate to a foster child who has had a life full of conflict and stress, and needs a home where love and structure will help him/her heal and thrive.Sharon