I'm 40 and I just found out my Father isn't my biological Father

" I just want to point out that the man who raised you is your real father. The other man is your birth father."Millie, I so value your thoughts, more than you could ever realize. I am sorry, but I just found out I am a birth father, and I am not sure how to handle you saying someone is else the "real father." I am sure you have a perspective, based on what you have gone through, and others you have helped. I believe you have helped so many people, and I could never thank you enough for that. ...But please understand, every situation is different, and people on here seek information, that is so hard to get....I am a father in so many ways...sometimes fathers are not bad....we just want what is best for our family, our children....