A Queston About Adoptive Parents

I just saw this too. Sorry to hear you are going through this Blain. It's a hard thing, I think, for our adoptive families. My adoptive parents and I really don't have any clue how to talk to each other about it. It's been very awkward to say the least, but I can't put all the blame on them, as I don't really know how to talk to them about it, either. I agree with you that it is adding to family, not taking any away, but it's still strange. I literally went out and found an entire new family, and I have a relationship with my birth family now and don't expect that to change. Anyway, I don't feel I am doing it "well," so really shouldn't give you advice, other than to say I am thinking of you. Has it improved since you posted?