Unsure about fostering

The fact that you have already put so much detailed thought into this tells me you should definitely foster. The thing is, you don't have to have all that figured out before you start. You'll get training to become licensed, and all that can be figured out during your training to a certain extent. Then, of course, each child will be different so as long as you're adaptable to the child's needs everything will go well. Kids crave structure, so if you get kids who have never had it before and you give it to them, you'll see them blossom.