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i lived with a family in middle east, i'm 29 years old, they good to me but i always feel different because they have a kid after bring me home after 1 year i was 2 years when i adopted; they sure love his son much more than me always i feel i'm not belong to this family and always i feel lost where can i go ? they kind but i never felt in whole family that im their daughter i never feel that one day, family members like uncle & aunty and others when i was 7 years i always listen them saying to other people " She's not our daughter " i was terribly hurt ! i know its the truth ! but in this time i wasn't know that i'm not their daughter mom never told me before ! so i known when i listen it many times . and when i fallen in love with someone his family refused me because i'm adopted ! and when i be 29 years old my sporting club in my country (famous and big one ) refused to renew my membership because i'm not their daughter and I am Adopted ! how can i deal with that feeling '' hurt, belong to nothing , rejected , different ,refused me; its not my fault ! what's really the problem if my parents died and other family adopted me !? why all people always look at me that i different and you never belong to us ! really i don't understand ! the sporting club kicked me out because i'm adopted !! i was amember more than 20 years ! i don't care about membership ! but the rejection really hurt ! whats wrong with me! any one tell me ! it's really hard to be adopted in middle east the whole society never accept you! they just trying to be nice with adopted person !
Last update on April 2, 7:16 am by Soufy Farid.
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This is awful- I’m so so sorry this has happened to you. How do you cope with it on a daily basis? What helps you?
i lived with a family in middle east, i'm 29 years old, they good to me but i always feel different because they have a kid after bring me home after 1 year i was 2 years when i adopted; they sure love his son much more than me always i feel i'm not belong to this family and always i feel lost where can i go ? they kind but i never felt in whole family that im their daughter i never feel that one day, family members like uncle & aunty and others when i was 7 years i always listen them saying to other people " She's not our daughter " i was terribly hurt ! i know its the truth ! but in this time i wasn't know that i'm not their daughter mom never told me before ! so i known when i listen it many times . and when i fallen in love with someone his family refused me because i'm adopted ! and when i be 29 years old my sporting club in my country (famous and big one ) refused to renew my membership because i'm not their daughter and I am Adopted ! how can i deal with that feeling '' hurt, belong to nothing , rejected , different ,refused me; its not my fault ! what's really the problem if my parents died and other family adopted me !? why all people always look at me that i different and you never belong to us ! really i don't understand ! the sporting club kicked me out because i'm adopted !! i was amember more than 20 years ! i don't care about membership ! but the rejection really hurt ! whats wrong with me! any one tell me !it's really hard to be adopted in middle east the whole society never accept you! they just trying to be nice with adopted person !
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that's very sad... I can relate to you since I was adopted myself (tho not legally)... but the feeling of not belonging is the same... when I reached 18 yrs old, I decided to live on my own and have my own family, and that's what gives me a sense of belonging. Maybe since you're 29, it's about time to start living on your own (that is if it's allowed there, I'm not sure). But I wish you'll find a way soon.