Foster Care question - We are new to Foster Care and would like insight

First: change your way of thinking. Foster kids need love, structure and things that non-foster kids have. Example: grounding as a punishment. A bio kid would be grounded and sent to his/her room. Big no-no for foster kids. They need time-ins. Keep them with you as much as possible. Structure as much as possible. Do things that become traditions. We would drive around looking at houses on Christmas Eve, then have hot chocolate. Keep in mind, that a foster child will have anxiety, have gone through trauma and will have experienced some type of abuse/neglect. Also: because of the trauma, foster kids brains "freeze". Their emotional age may not be their physical age. You have to parent the stage, not the age. Good luck!!