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Good Day all, We are in process of adopting two children out of Foster Care...our question is what is the right cadence of meetings with the birth mother? we would love to get some advice for someone who has adopted children that are close to being grown. We are wondering what is the healthiest for the children as they grow into adulthood. Birth mom is pretty unstable and has history of drug use, dad's are out of the picture. Thanks! We are very interested in what impact will be for the children in 10-20 years from now.
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Honestly, there's no way of knowing. Mine were older child adoptions. One mother was in an abusive relationship and stayed while he abused the kids. Other bm was young and didn't know what to do. I had the contact and let the kids decide. They may want a continuous relationship or they may go back and forth.
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