"Adoption Sucks!"..................................

DY, I am also an adoptee, and I can feel your pain, even though I was adopted as an infant. Everyday it feels like a piece of you is missing, and you want to just lash out at someone or something!! We were adopted in a whole different era than today, at least today's birthmother's have a lot of say in the adoption process.Back in the 60's it was a whole lot different, young girls were forced into adoption and told to just forget about they're babies. I am a Mother now, and I could not for one second even dream about ever giving up my children, I would just have to die, but I know in my heart that thing were different for my birthmother, she was scared out of her wits!! I know your situation is a lot different, and I am so sorry that you have to endure all this pain you are going through. But, I pray Jesus will bring you inner peace. God Bless You and keep you safe. Sincerely, Brenda....