One important piece of information for women in an unplanned pregnancy is that you have options and there are groups and individuals who can support you and guide you through your decisions.
The choice is yours to place or to parent, but many people stand by, ready to support you through that choice. There are support groups, adoption professionals, friends, agency personnel, social workers and more who will help you through your choices.
Whether your adoption is completely open, or some other degree of openness, there are those who can support you and help you through setting the boundaries and the plan for your future with adoptive parents and your child. Ask questions of attorneys, agency personnel, and those who have already placed their children. This is something that will be a tremendous help for you!