With Lilly and Luke, my friends' son and daughter. They are so excited for me to become a mom!
Hoping to Become a Mom!
I would love to learn more about you, talk about your hopes and goals for your child, and figure out how you and I can make them come true.
Thank you for reading this! Hi, I’m Hailey! Thank you so much for taking the time to learn about me. While this must be a difficult decision for you, I think your courage, your selflessness, and your love for your child are amazing. Your decision would also be the most generous and transformative gift for someone like me, who has always dreamed of being a mom and devoting my life to a child. I hope that my words help you get to know me and envision the loving mom I would be to your child. I would love to learn more about you, talk about your hopes and goals for your child, and figure out how you and I can make them come true. If you do choose me, please know that I look forward to being by your side every step of the way, and that I will love your child unconditionally.
Celebrating Thanksgiving with family and friends ❤️
A little about me and my dream of becoming a mom!
I absolutely love children and feel completely ready – emotionally, logistically and financially - to make your child the center of my universe.
I absolutely love children and feel completely ready – emotionally, logistically and financially - to make your child the center of my universe. I have lived in the same close-knit New Jersey town since I was seven years old, which means I have family and friends all around. They are an amazing support system and a constant source of joy, love, laughter. Many of my friends live within walking distance of me and nearly all of them have young kids, meaning that your child will be surrounded by friends and honorary aunts and uncles. From Christmas parties in the winter to summer barbecues, there is always something going on. I love to have people over for simple get-togethers, and to hang out on my friends’ porches with their young children when the weather is nice out. My mom, Bev, is my best friend and will be an every day part of your child’s life if you so generously choose to entrust me! I’m so glad she lives close by in the house I grew up in, which is filled with happy memories of my childhood. She is amazing with children, in a way that is nearly impossible to describe with words but I will try. She allows children to be silly and serious by making them feel heard and smart. She always has your back and encourages all of us – kids and adults included -- to be ourselves and try new things. We talk on the phone every day, get together all the time, and enjoy family vacations together every summer. She is an amazing woman and role model, and a wonderful “Nana” to my nieces and nephews (Andrew, Kevin, Sky, and Quinn). I know she’ll be similarly incredible with your child. She’s up for anything, fun, kind, and thoughtful – my friends adore her! My older brother, Todd, lives close too, and we enjoy spending time together. I am grateful to Todd and his wife Lisa for giving me three awesome nephews and an amazing niece (they blended their family when they got married – Todd had two sons, and Lisa had a son and a daughter). I’m so proud of Andrew, Kevin, Sky, and Quinn—they’re unique, independent, and loving. It’s been my pleasure to be their aunt and their cheerleader. I have proudly been with them through diapers, skinned knees, tears, laughter, baseball and football games, board games, sleepovers, movies, recitals, ping pong tournaments, and graduations. My entire extended family is supportive of my adoption plan and ready to unconditionally embrace the newest addition.
Beaming with pride at my nephew Andrew’s graduation!
My dream of being a mom
I was always intended to create my family through adoption. I will be so grateful to you if you help this dream come true.
My lifelong dream has been to become a mom. From the time I was a little girl, I hoped to adopt a baby. When the time was right for me to become a mom, I decided that I would try to adopt and get pregnant at the same time. Basically, I chose to let the universe tell me which path was the right one for me to become a mom. After a number of failed fertility treatments, it is clear that my dream from the time I was a little girl was the right one – I was always intended to create my family through adoption. I will be so grateful to you if you help this dream come true. For a number of years I was dating a man and we talked about adopting a child together, but we broke up before we created a family together. I am not presently in a relationship. I’m open to meeting someone in the future who shares my love of family and would be wonderful to this child, but I know with all my heart that now is the time for me to become a mom. My top priority right now is becoming a mom, and being a mom and providing your child with the best life I can possibly give him or her will take precedence over anything else in the future. I’m fortunate to be at a place in my life where I can make that call. I’m an open book, so if you have any questions let me know. I’m happy to share whatever information would help you make your decision. Children and education have always been incredibly important to me. I’ve always loved working with children and I started my career as a seventh- and eighth-grade science teacher. I now have a career I truly love on a beautiful college campus – a job that allows to me make a difference, and also to have a flexible schedule. If you choose me to adopt your child, I can promise you that she or he will be showered with love and surrounded by some of the most amazing and cool people from all backgrounds and all over the world. There is such a wonderful, youthful energy and always something amazing going on at the college – basketball games, soccer matches, art shows, performances, concerts, yearly breakfast with Santa, I could go on and one. The college is extremely forward-thinking and diverse, celebrating human differences as well as similarities. I know the wonderful staff, faculty and students will all embrace this child with open arms and hearts. Since my career is established and my schedule is flexible, I can be a totally hands-on mom. Plus, my college is close-knit, family-friendly, and incredibly supportive of families of all kinds.
I can’t wait to be a loving mom to your child, and promise to give him or her the best life I can possibly provide
My Promise to You and Your Child
First and foremost, I want you to let me know whatever your needs are so I can help your through this. You and your feelings are tremendously important to me.
First and foremost, I want you to let me know whatever your needs are so I can help your through this. You and your feelings are tremendously important to me. I want to follow your lead in terms of how much we stay in touch or get together, and I would love to hear your dreams for your child. I am always here for you. Beyond that… I will love your child fiercely and unconditionally, doing everything I possibly can to provide him or her with a wonderful life. I will encourage and nurture your child’s unique talents, interests, and qualities, always valuing and supporting his or her individuality. I will ensure that your child has a childhood filled with love, laughter, wonder, adventure, learning, and joy. I will be forever dedicated to ensuring your child’s health, happiness, and success. Your child and I will always celebrate you with love and deepest gratitude for the extraordinary person who made it possible for me to become a mother. A few closing thoughts… Thank you reading about me. I am so happy to answer any questions you have and I’d love to text or talk. Please call or text me anytime at 1-800-557-9529 so we can get to know each other. You can also e-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org. If you have any questions about me or the legal process, please call my attorney Suzanne Nichols. She has helped me so much through all of this, and she is so knowledgeable, kind and non-judgmental. I can’t explain how much her help has meant to me. Suzanne is happy to speak with you – call her anytime at her toll-free number: 800-255-1415. Thanks again for considering me to adopt your baby. I truly can’t thank you enough. Love, Hailey