A little bit about us....
Horseback riding in Hawaii
We truly want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for making the incredibly courageous and loving decision to choose adoption. You are going to be such an amazing blessing to whoever you choose! Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We are a loving couple and we want to share that tremendous love with your baby.
We first met through a website called Match.com and we were both ready to meet that special someone, fall in love and settle down. From the very beginning we have been finishing each other’s sentences, laughing and joking about pretty much everything.
We had a beautiful wedding on a private beach with just the two us in Kauai. We have since gone back to enjoy the island and all it has to offer. For us, Kauai will always be a special place and hold some of our fondest memories.
We are all about the adventure! That is why we sold our house and moved to Texas to start up a business. We love the fact that we get to work together. We are truly each-others best friends.
We have been married for a little over four years and together just over five years. For us, the process of trying to have a child has been a painful one. We struggled with infertility for several years and went through the whole gamut of treatment options. We are so excited for this journey and the steps we are taking through adoption to become parents. Bianca has experienced the blessings of adoption on her side of the family too. Her grandmother, on her mom’s side, was adopted and it opened our eyes to the beauty of what it can do for a family. Without the loving act of adoption Bianca’s family would not exist today.
Bianca through John's eyes
Bianca has been the single greatest thing that has ever happened to me. I didn’t realize how blessed I could be until God brought her into my life. I scored the lottery and married up at least 5 points! She has dreamed of being a mother since she was a little girl. She would pray every night for her baby doll, Tinkerbell, to become a real baby so she could care for her like a mother would. Seeing how she is today and hearing about how she would do these things as a young girl has really blown me away. She wants to be a mom, in every sense of the word. She wants to care for a baby and help raise the child into a person who loves and cares for others the same way she does. There is no doubt in my mind that she is going to be the best mother ever.
Beyond her desire to be a mother, Bianca also has the most amazing traits. She has sponsored hungry children in other countries for years, even during times when she didn’t have much herself. She always puts others first and is genuinely concerned for the well-being of others. People gravitate toward her as someone they are willing to open up to. She is so skilled at striking up a conversation with practically anyone anywhere and getting to know them. We could be at the grocery store and I turn around and she’s chatting it up with a random woman she’s never met before.
I admire her in so many ways and she helps give me the drive to be a better man and husband. I thank God for bringing her into my life. There’s nothing I’d change about her because she is perfect for me.
John through Bianca's eyes
John is the most caring and loving man you will ever meet. He is always looking for ways to bring a smile to your face. Everyone in his life will tell you he is one of the most easy going people and that he is always looking to have fun. He is all about the adventure and adrenaline! One of his passions is racing motorcycles. In fact, our second date was at the race track. One of his favorite sayings for just about anything in his life is “High speed low drag”….. he’s all about the speed and excitement of life.
He is very passionate about his responsibility as a husband and soon to be father. He is determined to give his family everything that they desire. He is truly the most selfless man I know. John will be a wonderful father. One of the most endearing things about John is how tenderhearted he is.
In my mind, John can fix just about anything! Whenever there is a dilemma or something needs to be fixed John is right there to make things right. He is quite the handy man! For instance, as a child my family never hung Christmas lights on our house and it was something I had always wanted. Well, one day I came home from work only to find that John had spent the whole afternoon hanging Christmas lights on our beach bungalow for me. He now hangs Christmas lights for me every year.
What I want you to know the most is that John is a loving and wonderful man. He loves The Lord, his wife, his doggies, his country, his family and his friends. He is so excited to become a Daddy.
Work & Home Life
We are self-employed. We own an insurance business that focuses on working with seniors. We truly love what we do because we get to help so many people. Since we are self-employed and we work from home we are able to set our own hours. We can take vacations whenever we want and ultimately are pretty free with our schedules. Once we bring our precious little baby home, John will become the primary provider and Bianca will be a stay at home mom to our baby. She will help out with the business from time to time and during our busy season.
We just moved to Texas from California. We sold our house in San Diego and decided to head to Texas. We live in an area called The Woodlands. It is truly a beautiful community. There are paths and trails with towering trees everywhere you look. Some of the trails even lead to little lakes and ponds. Also, The Woodlands is known to have the best schools in Texas.
One of our favorite things to do in our town is to head to the outdoor pavilion for a picnic and listen to live music playing in the background. The Woodlands is very family oriented and hosts many family fun events throughout the year.
While at home, John likes to work on his computer in the office or tinker around in the garage. Bianca likes to bake banana bread or try out her latest concoction in the kitchen. We are also a little bit addicted to Netflix.
Over all, our home is filled with love, laughter and some doggie barks.