Our Immediate Family
If you have read our letter, then you already know that we lost our first three children; Eli and Oliver in 2016, and Skylee in 2017. But the story of our family only starts there. While this will be a truncated version, we wanted to share at least a few of the miracles that got us to where we are today. A very short time after Skylee passed away, we began to feel strongly that we needed to prep for adoption. This caught us off guard because as we were still very much grieving from our loss. But the feeling persisted, and as we prayed about it we knew that this was God pushing us forward. We posted our first profile live on Adoption.com in February 2018. I was in the first year of my MBA program, with an out of state internship looming. We expected slow progress, but in March we were thrilled to match with a young and overwhelmed single mother pregnant with a second child due in October. We met with her regularly as the pregnancy progressed, and we felt confident in moving forward together. However, as we went to take our profile down, we again experienced that strong pressure from the Lord to leave it up. Kristy and I were both impressed that there might be another child out there intended to come to our family. We discussed it with the birth mother we had already matched with, and explained our feelings as well as what we had received through prayer. She was excited by the prospect of her child having a sibling, and gave us her blessing to proceed. The profile stayed up. I traveled to my internship for three months while Kristy remained home. We waited and wondered why we had felt to leave the profile up, when all seemed quiet. One day in May, I was deep in thought and meditation when some words were deeply imprinted on me: “He is coming”. That night we were contacted by the mother of a young girl pregnant with a son and due in August. We were blessed to be able to take both Carter and Bentley home from the hospital, and they have been the most incredible blessings in our lives. Still, we knew that our family wasn’t complete. After a move to Kentucky in November of 2021, we began to feel once more that it was time to start the process again. As we engaged in the process, we continued to experience many little set backs that pushed the completion date out farther and farther. In a moment of frustration, I expressed to a church leader that we were wanting to expand our family, felt like it was time, but also felt like we were getting blocked. Three days later, that church leader was called about a one-year-old child that needed to be placed in a home. He was asked if he knew of anyone, and because of our conversation he did. Daniel joined us at the end of March, 2023. One thing we have learned is that God has his own plans. We put in the effort and faith, He provides the miracles. With two five-year-olds, and 21-month-old who only recently joined our family, it surprised us both when we again started to feel that same prompting and pushing from the Lord to ready ourselves for adoption again. We don’t know what He has in store, but we are excited by the prospect of a larger family!