Brandy and I have been married for 12 years, and together for 13. Our love was instant,
we both knew this was something special. I knew I wanted to marry her within two weeks of knowing her, there isn’t a doubt in my mind she’s my person.
We are both hopeful for an open adoption, we want you to be welcome in our lives and have the support and interaction that best supports whatever you may need.
She is one of the kindest people I know.
We are lucky enough to be able to travel twice a year, with my company, which we are so excited to share with our future child. We have traveled to some of the most amazing places, like New Zealand, Maui and Spain. These are once in a lifetime trips that will be a part of our family for the rest of my career.
We are so excited to be bringing my mom on her first trip to Europe to see Italy. Sharing these magical journeys with our family is everything to us.
With all the places we have been, we always love coming home. We are lucky enough to have found our home, nestled away in nature, but still close enough to town to have a 10 min commute. It is a gorgeous craftsman home with a nursery we have slowly filled over the years of hoping to become parents. We live on 5 acres and spend most of the time outside sprucing it up. The stunning trees that line our back yard are one of our favorite things to look at, it's our own little oasis, a beautiful and safe place for everyone to explore. Our next door neighbors are incredible humans, he is a firefighter and she was an EMT, they have two little ones that know us as Aunt Brandy and Aunt Whitney. We have gardens we share, as well as a big round driveway that their children ride their bikes on. It’s one of my favorite things to watch Brandy play with the kids next door. They just love her, and it’s one of the reasons I know she will be a great mom.
Even though our journey to get to this space has been hard, I feel nothing is ever lost if we learn something from it. I feel like my miscarriages and struggles with fertility have brought us so much closer together as a couple. We have made sure to communicate through the pain and take good care of ourselves and each other. I know it has deepened our love and better prepared us to be parents. We are so grateful for our lives.
We are both hopeful for an open adoption, we want you to be welcome in our lives and have the support and interaction that best supports whatever you may need. While we wont turn away a closed adoption, we want you to know that we have room in our hearts to give this love to both you and your baby.