Our Letter to You

We love you already!
Dear Friend,

We may not know you, but we do know what it feels like to be faced with difficult decisions when life doesn’t go according to plan. No matter what you choose, we already see you as a hero for seeking to do what is best for your baby. We are thinking of you and praying for you.

No matter what you choose, we already see you as a hero for seeking to do what is best for your baby.



It has been three years since we decided we wanted to start our family. At times, our hearts have ached with the waiting. But we’re also grateful for the time we’ve had to learn to love each other better, to take new adventures, and to make a marriage that’s even more ready to be a foundation for a family.

The most important thing we can give to a child is love. We are ready to love a child unconditionally and forever. We are not perfect and neither are our lives, but our home is a place of respect, forgiveness, listening, comfort, compassion, and play. We hope you can feel our love as you look through these pages.

We promise to give this child the safety and support they need to be their best selves. Hilary will teach them to be kind and open-hearted, and to make life an adventure by trying new things every day. She will take them on road trips to the beach and to art museums. Neil will teach them to be curious and love learning. He will read to them and show them how to play the piano. All of us will commit to facing life together as team, no matter what.

We’re so glad you are considering adoption as part of your journey. We will always consider the birthparents of our child to be heroes to our family, and will share our child’s life with you to whatever extent you feel comfortable with. We would love to meet you and answer any questions you may have.

We wish you love and clarity as you make this important decision.

Love, Hilary and Neil

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