reference letters from family

I cant tell you what to say, but on mine, I had 2 letters of reference from family and one oral reference, plus 5 from friends. As a family member I think what they want is a little history about that person. Did they give you a form to kind of go from? With some basic questions? Our ss included forms like that with letter of reference at the top...then you can write as much as you want about that person. They want to know what kind of person they are, do you spend time with them, are you close, feelings on adoption that kind of thing. Good Luck:) I had one who wrote an 8 page book! LOL :-)