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I am completley confused...I need to know if this is legal! My husband and I are seperated...but not legally seperated. He has been seeing a girl for 8 months, and they have a house, and she....the husband thief in question...sent me not just 1 but 3 e-mails to announce the adoption of their new baby. He has a son by me, and another son before we were married that he doesn't even care about...how in the world could these idiots possibly adopt? I would love to know if I would be legally bound to pay for this child if they split up, since we are legally married. I welcome any and all responses to this. I am further concerned because the father in question is into pornography involving barely legal girls....and the child is a girl. I would like to stop this adoption at all costs, as I am a christian woman, and will not file for divorce on him...I also want the child to grow up in a safe home, and I know with the fathers background, she will end up getting either molested, or beat, as he beat my son in the past. Please help me to make this right.
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I don't have any legal advice for you, but she could be adopting as a single parent. I'm adopting as a single parent.
She could be adopting singley. It happens often that people will adopt as a single and wait to get married. Some countries have a requirement as to how long a couple is married before they adopt, so to avoid it, they marry after.
This is not my case, but it happens.
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Ok, take at face value.....this is an abusive man who shouldn't have children in his home. call children's services and report it. You have no control over an adoption, if there even is one, but you can help protect the children by reporting his activities and keeping an eye on things.
I won't touch the divorce thing, but if you know these things about this man and allow him to be around your children without you there, the YOU become responsible as well. Report it.. Debi
I would love to hear from anyone that knows anything about my origional thread...and want to thank the people that have sent messages to me. I am not pressing divorce, but I have no intentions of EVER getting back together with him. Good luck to his new flavor, I warned her, but love is blind...and usually deaf to the voice of reason. I look forward to any and all new replies....God be with you all!
Wendy :)
A homestudy must include all people residing in the home. Did you report the previous abuse of your child? If so, he could not pass a homestudy as the criminal record check should show this. I'm sorry the child is having to go through this.
If the homestudy does not show your husband on it, there is a problem with the homestudy that needs to be corrected.
Peggy
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