father dilemia

sondra, why did you give a fake name. why didn't you want to give this guy a chance at parenting or maybe someone in his family could have. i think that you should contact the agency in case the child wants to find its biological father some day. (what makes you think you'll get charged with purjery) it would be a shame for that child to search and search and find out that you lied. that might come back to haunt you. I also think contacting the father would be a good idea...at least for him to know he has a child and in 18 years not to be suprised if he gets a knock on the door.

Hi Sondra, Please reconsider telling the truth to the agency - it is in your childs best interest. Why did you not tell the bfather? My son's bfather is unknown- I wish I could atleast give him his medical info. Unfourtantly my son will never know anything about his bfather or his bfathers family. His bfather probably doesn't even know he was concieved- that makes me sad for everyone involved.

I think you should give the agency the real name of the father. since you didnt give the real name and when and if you do he can step in and go to court and get the child back.

Why did you do this?

Chances are the OP will not respond as she has been banned. Just a tip - when you are banned under one user name it doesn't mean you should try again under another user name. ;)

I wonder why she was banned?

She was banned because she was banned previously under a previous user name.