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I found this place trying to research a bit on my own, I am worried, and my lawyer is out of town until hearing. My daughters birth father willingly terminated his rights August 17, We are going in for Step parent Adoption because my husband, and the man she has called her father since 1996 wanted to Adopt her, and she doesn't want anything to do with her bio father after he told her he wished she was Aborted when she tried to contact him after he had been ignoring her for years other then random dragging me into court for Custody because he wanted child support (Not that this had much point because I am and have been a stay at home mom for years now, and the best job I could get wouldn't be enough to raise a child, but he seems to think he could get her step father to pay support) Worst part is all of this is in Emails he sent to her and me. Now he is sending threats telling me he is going to reverse his termination and fight the adoption if I do not Western Union him 1000 dollars after this is finalized. How hard would it be for him to Change his mind like this in the State of Nevada? The Adoption will be finalized October 2nd and his termination has been on file with the courts since August. And are these threats and insults to my daughter admissible? They have all been emails to sent 3 different email addresses, mine, my daughters (Which I have blocked now) and my husbands. (Since the whole thing started in May we have received over 300 emails from Bio father and his new wife, all of them harassing us, and insulting our child (I saved all of them in case). And does my 12 year old have a say, she is really upset by the way he is treating her, and I really do not want her to have to deal with this guy or his new wife
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I highly doubt that he can reverse anything, especially since you have an adoption case pending. I would think that any judge would see right through his scam and with all the evidence you have against him there is no way they would give him his rights back. Try not to stress over it. And continue to documenting everything. It sounds like he screwed himself. Why wait until the adoption case is over to file a restraining order? Do it now!-Jess
That would be a bad idea with him, quickest way to have him show up in court is to get a restraining order against him before this is done. Right now he is no real threat he lives in 2700 miles from me, and as much as he hates me, his new wife wants the child support stopped and won't let him. But if I served him with a restraining order his Mother would blow a gasket and pay his way down. (Had to get a restraining order agains't him while I was filing for Divorce which ended up to be hugely counter productive, it served to do the oposite of what it should have done, but at that time I lived in a comunity where his Mother had way to much influence on the local police, so he never got anything more then a hey quit going to her house and job) The last thing I want is a speed bump and him showing up in court would be a major speed bump. While a restraining order will work against him here, it will not keep him out of the court house, and I do not want to give him that as a reason to whine to his mom, or get him really angry at this time. (I do intend on getting one after, because he still visits this state regularly)
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