Support groups in area

Question does anyone know of any support groups in the NY Area for Birth Father's and Adoptee's looking for their B Parents ?. Where you can sit and talk about Questions and feelings, I have been looking for info on my B parents for 10 yrs now,and dont know if i really want to now, because my son that was put up for adoption found me last year. And I see that this can really get families crazy. Thanks for any help with this because I would like to sit down with a group of people to speak about this instead of just online all the time. Thanks H93