Desires for my adoptive mother

Yes it’s a thing, I am currently in the same position, haven’t acted on it as it will destroy the family quote=148785]In my 40's I seem totally incapable of escaping the incredible physical desires that I harbour for my adoptive mother. I first saw her as an 'attractive woman' when I was about 14 and tried to pass it off as some kind of teenage fantasy/crush, but having felt the same lust for her for nearly 30-years, I think it's fair to say that it's clearly not a teenage thing!Is it 'normal' for an adopted son to feel this way for his adoptive mother? She's in her 70's now but given the slightest invitation by her... Am I unique in these incredibly strong desires for my adoptive mother, or is it a common consequence of the adoption process?Thank you for reading and I hope that both fellow adopted sons and adotive mothers might be able to give me their views on this matter...[/quote]