I want my baby back!!

WOW, im amazed that everyone here agrees that this mama should try to get her kiddo back! yeah, the aparents will be hurt, and yeah, bmom is in pain, but how bout the baby?? this babe is going to be so confused and frightened and truly~ the child has suffered a loss already. for the adoptees who say go for it because if your birthmom had wanted you back you wish they had tried for it,~~~~i guarantee ALL of your biomoms wanted you. you were not in any way unwanted. pretty much every bmom i know goes through a time of wishing the babe could come back. i cant tell you how many times ive fantasized about getting my children back, especially in the beginning but isnt it about the kids? how will that be for the baby? i dont believe for one second that the child is too young to know the difference. the baby knew when biomom was nowhere in sight to comfort him. it was painful for him and he suffered~ they all do~ but geeez, to do that again to him?? i just think its flat out wrong. sorry if this sounds harsh but i think someone has to speak up for the baby. just my two cents worth. to the OP~ i think what will help you is suport. rememebr the reasons you made the choice to begin with. grieve the loss, talk about it, look at photos, make a journal, ask questions, and remember your love for your child. your choice was made out of love. hold that thought in your mind and heart.