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so im new here and really looking for help. my husband and i recently went into debt settlement so we could get rid of our dredit debt. We own our house, make good money and always paid our bills on time but part of debt settlement is to not pay your credit card bills for several months and then settle for half the money. Our credit was excellent 5 months ago and now kinda bad but in a few years it will be good again. Is this totally going to hurt us in the adoption process?
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We didn't have a credit check, Just had to fill out a sheet with some information on it.. I'll copy and paste it:
ASSETS:
Home (Fair Market Value)
Personal Possessions
Automobiles
Savings Account Balance
Checking Account Balance (average bal.)
Investments
IRA/Pension/Retirement
Other Real Estate
Value of Business Owned
Other
LIABILITIES
Home Mortgage
Automobile Loans
Home Equity Loans
Credit Card Balances
Other Mortgages
Other Personal Debts of any kind
Business Debts
MONTHLY INCOME
HIS
HERS
MONTHLY EXPENSES
Utilities
Child Care
School Tuition
Insurance (Life, Health, Dental, Etc.)
Savings Deposits
IRA or Retirement Savings
**Have either of you ever filed for bankruptcy?
We also had to include either a copy of our last paycheck stub or our most recent income tax paperwork to verify income.
mrssadler
We want to adopt but we may have to file bankruptcy to save our house. We had a rough year medically last year that put us behind. Although we r better all the interest incurred on the mortgage is making it difficult to catch up. Do u know how it will affect our chances of adopting?
To OP sorry to hijack. To PP we can afford the adoption that's not the point. There is more to the mortgage thing than I posted since it was a general question I didn't think I need to explain in detail. Our home study app and the adoption agency app doesn't have anything on it about bankruptcy. Ill just call them and ask them.
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mrssadler
To OP sorry to hijack. To PP we can afford the adoption that's not the point. There is more to the mortgage thing than I posted since it was a general question I didn't think I need to explain in detail. Our home study app and the adoption agency app doesn't have anything on it about bankruptcy. Ill just call them and ask them.
wow Silva. mrssadler was decent enough to pm you with what she thought. Unless I'm mistaken, I believe that's allowed. You, in my opinion, are a tad snarky. " I'm not a mindreader, sadly" hmmm. You could have simply pm'd her back or just ignored it. It's not like anyone else saw it. Unlike your public message. Oh and not all adoptions cost a lot of money. ie foster to adopt. Maybe she was simply asking if the bankruptcy would effect her chances. She didn't say anything about how much money it would cost.
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