How to do step parent adoption w/o attorney?

Call your local family court. There should be a person, typically a clerk, who processes the adoptions. S/he should be able to tell you which forms need to be filled out. Some courts also have volunteer lawyers on certain days - check to see if your family court has a similar program available. You can download the forms here: [url=http://www.courts.state.hi.us/self-help/courts/forms/oahu/family_court_forms.html]Family Court Forms for O`ahu (First Judicial Circuit)[/url] Good luck.