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We are new foster parents. We are currently caring for an 18 month old little girl. We have had her for 6 weeks now. About 2-3 weeks ago she started hitting, biting, and temper tantrums. All somewhat normal and hopefully a good sign that she feels safe with us. During diaper changes she started to touch herself. I was not concerned because it all seemed normal. (Although she does seem to have a better idea where things are then my girls did at that age.) I just ignore the behavior and continue to change her. One week ago, she smiled at me in a different way, touched herself, then extended her fingers out to me. I ignored this. She then took her fingers and put them in her mouth then repeated. Everthing was very deliberate. Now almost every diaper change she does this although she had stopped offering me the fingers.
So, I just have a feeling that this is not normal and I have a sick feeling in my stomach. There was concern that she was sexually abused and I was told her previous caregiver (male) was acting out sexually although there were no further details.
Is this something I should talk to the case worker about? Document it in my paperwork?
Please help!
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Thanks to all who responded. I have a call into the CW. I was second guessing myself. This has been making me sick. Not sure I'm cut out for this.
That doesn't sound normal to me. Many babies that age sometimes slap or pull on their privates (in a "hey, what is this thing?" kind of way) during diaper changes/bath time, but what you're describing doesn't sound like typical curiousity to me. My FFD (3) did that kind of thing a few times. She'd stick her hand in her pull up, rub really fast, then take her hand out and smell it. She said she was "just checking it", but wasn't sure what she was checking for when I asked her.
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