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Our two foster kids were removed from our home today. The reason given was, "we love them too much". We were supposed to move to TPR then adopt. We are devastated and confused. Why would this happen???
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I'm sorry you're going through this! I've heard that caseworkers sometimes move kids to keep them from attaching, but I've never wanted to believe such an absurd and hurtful thing could really happen. I hope someone replies who has some insight. It just seems beyond ridiculous! Your poor kiddos!
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Our foster kiddos moved from us to a "permanent" foster home when their plan changed from short- to long-term foster care. They've each been moved at least twice since, and not always been kept together. It seriously makes me wonder what the state means by "permanent"! I'm so glad your kids' CASA is looking into this situation.
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I have heard of the children's attorney and CASA going to court to reverse a move made by CPS, but it all depends on how powerful they are in your state. Here, the CASA, attorneys and CPS work so closely together that moves are rarely made like this unless there is a huge compelling reason.
You need a better answer from the state as to why they were moved, so I would be in the supervisor's office right now asking lots of questions and I wouldn't stop until I got a satisfactory answer. Unfortunatly many case workers are not honest and it is possible that your CW told lies to the supervisor. You need to know who authorized the move, if the supervisor knows about it and how to stop this from happening in the future.
Were the children placed with you as a pre-adoptive placement? If you have had them only 4 months, how long have they been in care? The reason I'm asking is that the state will not file tpr so soon. 4 months is nothing in foster care. It takes a long time to get to that point.
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I found out they moved the two children again! They are confused and scared. My heart is broken. The bio mom even requested they be moved back to us. I truly think you are correct in that it is a "personal" issue. This CW in my book, is a monster for doing this and two weeks before Christmas! I'm trying my best to get some answers but I have no rights so no- one can legally tell me. I've never been this upset, frustrated and angry in my entire life.Thank you for listening.