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Just wondering if anyone has experience with other foster families whom agree to take siblings in a large age range only to disrupts the older children and keep the younger ones? Not a disruption because of safety reasons or not a good fit for child/family .I mean intentionally taking in siblings to get younger children then later coming up with a" concerning "reason to get older children moved and keep the little's.
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Not me but 2 little ones have a sister and brother. They were with family who only wanted the sister (don't know why). They didn't get her. All 3 (mine plus the sister) were in 2 other homes. When I got the call, I would have taken the sister but I didn't have room. I think they try to keep siblings together if at all possible.
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I wouldn't be surprised. From what I hear...if there is a sibling group they sometimes only want the younger children. The system prefers to keep the whole group together. I wouldn't be surprised if people agree to take all and then return the older ones thinking they can always keep the little ones. I have heard people say they come and take all which upsets them but...unless there is a real reason to not keep the kids together....