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Looking to connect with mom's who have adopted from foster care. A lot of the threads seem old so not sure if anyone is still around.
We are in Wisconsin and looking to adopt a sib group. Our kids are 10, 11 and 15. Do you really pick a child/ren off of the Waiting Child photo lists? Are those the worst of the worst for behavioral, attachment, learning issues? Are we limited to going younger than our youngest child? ICPC- is it really what it says it is- will we be able to get some expenses reimbursed and get adoption subsidies to help with added expenses? We have the basics covered but more extra curricular activities and any additional medical needs above what insurance pays would really put a strain on us.
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Looking to connect with mom's who have adopted from foster care. ...
We are in Wisconsin and looking to adopt a sib group. Our kids are 10, 11 and 15. Do you really pick a child/ren off of the Waiting Child photo lists? Are those the worst of the worst for behavioral, attachment, learning issues? Are we limited to going younger than our youngest child? ICPC- is it really what it says it is- will we be able to get some expenses reimbursed and get adoption subsidies to help with added expenses? ...
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adopted from foster care. waiting lists are for kid's they have trouble placing.
this means there was no family or foster home looking to adopt them. this can be because they have real issues, or it can mean they are looking for a special type of family (LGBT kids, for example need a home where they can be cherish, supported for who they are)
subsidies are, for the most part, a thing of the past. i do have medicaid as a secondary insurance, like pp stated, but it doesn't cover much.
there are sometimes exception for special needs kids (mine is listed as special need, but there are not extra funds)
the costs of adopting form foster care is very small. unlike domestic adoption. if you are trying to adopt from out of state, your big cost is travel.
Not sure about this year, but in the past, income tax credits can help you recoup any costs
good luck
Our case worker also says that the kids who are photo listed are difficult to place. However, it seems that sometimes it is purely that they are large sibling groups or siblings that need to stay together...being a teen is also a special needs issue. So read between the lines of the profile and see if there are red flags ie can't be with other children, no pets, may not share a room, etc