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In celebration of National Adoption Month I am sharing the chapel talk I gave when I was 17. It is the piece that started That Adopted Girl! It was the first time I went public and vocalized how I was feeling as an adoptee, and I vocalized it in front of my entire school, my parents and my birth parents.
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That Adopted Girl
Happy #NationalAdoptionMonth
[URL="http://thatadoptedgirljulianawhitney.com/2014/11/10/either-brave-enough-or-crazy-enough-the-piece-that-started-it-all/#more-354"]READ IT HERE![/URL]
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Beautifully written, Juliana.
Even though I am a "closed era" adoptee, I am now in reunion with extended family (my bmother died many years ago) and a lot of what you say resonates with my own experience - you described it so well.
As for this:
I agree almost word for word (except in my case, I would say "my reunion" because it wasn't until then that I could answer any of the questions). I am still figuring out things every day. One thing that has helped me is studying the history of child welfare and adoption throughout the ages, it helps put things into context.
You are a very talented young writer, Juliana.
I have something in my life that I get to work to understand on my own. While my adoption poses many questions for me to answer and times really pulls at my heart, I love that it is part of my life. Figuring out its complexity helps me to figure out who I am and therefore helps me grow greatly as a person so I can be the me that I want to be.
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AbusedAdoptee
Are you also looking for articles from adoptees with less-than-positive experiences?
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beatricesmith
As an adoptee, one thing I took from Juliana's post is that even open adoption adoptees still have the same questions as closed era adoptees.
Her experience as an open adoption adoptee reminded me of my experience in reunion - definitely questions were answered, questions still remain.
Also, I hope Juliana doesn't mind me saying this, but I think her post also shows that open adoption doesn't solve everything. Juliana still has a lot of things that she is trying to figure out, just like many of us other adoptees. I felt that Juliana was very real in describing how she felt.
Abused - I'm all about the view points. However; you have to look at what their business is. They are "adoption.com" I'm pretty sure that although they appreciate your perspective; it certainly wont further their cause, as such I doubt you'll be taken up on your offer. There are some great writers on this forum. I have no doubt many of you could be published.
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There is an abundance of talented writers on here! AbusedAdoptee, you know I've read your blog and I think you have a very strong voice.
I am not the content manager, so I can't speak for that team, but I think there is a place here for articles that show more than just one reality of Adoption.
With that being said, the criteria for each article is that it will educate, inspire and uplift. The articles that are "less-than-positive", as it was tagged, are incredibly strong in the education department and something I feel everyone in the adoption community, or entering it, needs to know. If they can include the other bits of criteria, then I'm sure they would be considered. I understand the issue though, "uplift and inspire" are usually associated with "positive" themes, rather than "less-than-positive". I'm not sure if that answered your question at all, again, that's just my take.
BTW- Right now, they are heavily looking for fertility.org writers. I know that doesn't apply to everyone, but if anyone has been down that road also, let me know if you're interested.
wrking21
Abused - I'm all about the view points. However; you have to look at what their business is. They are "adoption.com" I'm pretty sure that although they appreciate your perspective; it certainly wont further their cause, as such I doubt you'll be taken up on your offer. There are some great writers on this forum. I have no doubt many of you could be published.
adoptionadmin
There is an abundance of talented writers on here! AbusedAdoptee, you know I've read your blog and I think you have a very strong voice.
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AbusedAdoptee
My published work, which I won't promote here since I've been asked not to, is actually QUITE uplifting and inspiring -- written for teens/tweens to support and help them deal with some of the issues they face as adoptees and/or fostered youth
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