No Child, tired of playing the game.

Hubby and I live in Missouri, Missouri uses Adoption photolisting primarily for kids waiting for adoption (according to our state caseworker). However I see different kids on Adoption Exchange from Missouri. I inquire about said kiddos on Adoption Exchange and get no response. I have inquired with 2 private agencies, one we have a possible match, have to wait a few months, not sure how long (up to a family member of the kiddo--caseworker said the family member is dragging their feet and no idea what is going on--- private agency, not normal situation for them). And the other private agency is very evasive about sending material or answering questions. We are looking for a kid aged 3-10, not medically fragile, mild-moderate behavior, emotional issues and want to adopt domestically. We have no children of our own and do plan on raising child as own and would be open to an open adoption. I know it takes time. We have had our license (home study) done over a year. We've had 2 adoption interviews. I'm just at wits end and the process hasn't even started!!! Advice? If you know of an agency. Please private message me. We are new to the game and already tired of playing! :( :confused: