Seeking Guidance Regarding Adult Adoptee

Hi Rachel!I am the spouse of an adoptee and the last year from my own perspective has been an absolute nightmare.The absolute most biggest thing I can suggest is protect yourself and make sure YOUR boundaries are respected and protected by you and your partner. In all of these reunions and supports it has become so obviously apparent that there is so little support and resources for the spouses of adoptees and that it there is little room for what we may want/ need in all of this. Especially when your relationship was before the Birth parent.