depression and single parenting

I havnt had your problem or no any support groups, However If you need to talk with some one you can feel free to contact me . I will help you any way I can. I have alot of experance with people who are depressed I have even dealt with people who were on the edge of trying to end there life. So nothing you could possible say would surpise me. So you can contact me . I guess thats it. Take care and may God bless you.

I am a single mother and yes I completely understand how you feel as I have been there. Parenting is the hardest job in the world and when you do it alone there is no break. The exhaustion, the worry all play tricks with our minds. And you being at the beginning of your pregnancy the hormones are raging and they say the sheer exhaustion that one feels can be overwhelming. It doesn't mean you can't get through it. As far as your friends go, sometimes running away initially is how they need to cope themselves. That doesn't make it ok. Your profile doesn't say how old you are, do you have any family support available to help you? I would call local hospitals to ask about support groups or possibly large OB/GYN practices may have or know about groups in the area. Also the local Planned Parenthood should be able to steer you in the right direction. I would be more concerned if you weren't feeling worried and overwhelmed with the prospect of single parenting. It shows that you are thinking about it and looking to put some plans in place for yourself. Regarding the depression only a doctor can diagnosis depression but you should let your OB know how you are feeling. It does help to have other people to talk with when one is feeling worried and alone. I have been there and sometimes visit there often (not that it feels very good), but it always works out. Please feel free to email if you want to chat. Jen

Hi everyone, I think this is a very perntinent issue and would seriously welcome input from other single parents out there facing sole responsibility for child-rearing. The impact stress and emotional turmoil can have on the individual and the family unit is enormous. I really do believe that an exchange of trials, tribulations and the good days might be well worth sharing. Hopefully jen, trunk and whome won't remain alone on this thread for long...

Jen, I have been there and done that. It was really hard. I got through it. I now have a son that is 2 years old todoay even!(today is his birthday) I know that you can do it. Iwent to a maternity/transisitonal home that helped me out with clothes diapers, parenting classes....all sorts of stuff. I have alot of contact #s if you want them. What state do you live in? PM me if you need someone to talk to or if you need any advice or just someone to talk to. Good luck with your new baby on the way! Lilly:)