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Female born 1/26/52 Was told by adoptive parent that My birth name was Marie Elizabeth Davis If any of this may sound familiar, Contact me please! looking for a long time and possibly may have 6/7 siblings If what I have been told is true there must be someone out there who would like to know about me as I would about you. I am your missing link! Some Woman 51 years ago gave birth to me, My adoptive parents have long passed on, I would like the opportunity to meet with at least one of my birth relatives before my days have passed. No expectations, Just a completion of my life's cycle and a completion of my hearts desire. I am so unlike most people I have encountered in my life so I must have some likenesses to the one who decided I would be in a better place without them... I sit here testifying that I have wondered all of my life what my mother is like, what my father is like and what my brothers and sisters are like, and for that matter aunts,uncles, grandparents and so on and so on..... My soul has always waited for that profound moment when I could look into the face of the woman who gave birth to me on that Saturday in Janurary 1952!
Its never to late, its never so wrong or right its just a heart thing.
a good thing a loving thing. I thank you for my birth, and I think you were blessed with a human being who is kind of heart, strong in mind, and compassionate in spirit.
A strange physical feature that has puzzled me all my life and kind of silly it may seam is that I have a double crease on the inside of both elbows, where everyone I have ever met only has one single crease, I imagine this may be one of my distinguishing hereditary features.also a bith mark on my right thigh I guess like a strawberry, I used to think it looked like the united states, and would do magic tricks to make it dissappear when I was little by rubbing it away, but it always came back.
find me!:cool:
I just found your message while going through some old paperwork. (I had read and printed it almost two years ago.)
Did you ever find your birth family? There are some things about you that resemble my husband's situation. I'm trying to find his birth family for him. Any more information you can give me would be helpful. (Hair or eye color.)
Let me know.
Thanks much.
Linda Dunaiski, Duluth, MN
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Linda, thank you for a reply to my post! I have not found my family yet, allthough I believe I may have found a brother not perfectly sure and he passed before we could be perfectly sure, have not been very active on my search lately, it sometimes becomes draining to the spirit so I have my days of activity and those of rest. I am now 54 years old, my hair is still blonde but darker through the years and I was born with blue eyes and maybe now they are blue/grean/hazel I guess you would call them. average fair skin and 5' 4". Well that seems to be the info that you requested. I hope this has assisted you in someway, it is admirable of you to be searching for your husband. it would be a fantastic moment for him if you were to accomplish a connection for him. The best of luck on your journey! Again thanks for your reply and let me know if I can further help you in any way. :wings:
Regards,
Pat
Pat, I'm sorry I haven't replied to your note. I can't believe you answered mine the same day. I didn't realize that I had to check this web site for a reply. (I was under the mistaken impression that you would be able to email me directly.) Anyway, thanks for answering me.
My husband has (or had, before he started going grey) what could only be described as shocking red hair. He has blue eyes. What caught my attention in your description is the fact that he was also born on January 26, 1952 and was adopted in Schenectady, New York. (Not that far away.) But the thing that caught my eye the most was your "style" of writing. This sounds weird, but when he writes, he doesn't write like he talks, but he writes just like you. I suppose that doesn't make sense, and I wish I had an example of something he had written to show you. Oh well. If there are any other "clues" you can give me I would be very appreciative. My husband was adopted by a couple who are not exactly what you'd call "loving". He never wanted for anything physically, but he was always made to feel like he didn't deserve nice things. I believe that some of his feelings of "martyrdom" are from his adoption. (For example, they told him he was adopted as a five year old, and then NEVER SPOKE OF IT AGAIN. It's been like the family's little secret. I've encouraged him to look up his birth family, for self-esteem reasons, but he never would. He would say either he didn't want to hurt his (adoptive) parents or that his own mom gave him up, so she didn't want him. (I told him things were different in the early 1950's. Maybe she didn't WANT to give him up.) Anyway, if he had a "real" family maybe he could feel some self-worth. Does this make any sense? You seem like a very nice person. I hope I can get to talk to you sometime. Good luck with your search for your birth family, even if it doesn't include my husband.
Linda Dunaiski
P.S. My husband's name is Paul
I have come across your post recently and was caught by the 6 or 7 siblings. I was wondering if they are all older or younger than you? Perhaps both! I was born in Pa. and adopted in Pa. I have 6 siblings of which I am the youngest. The last name is different but that is possible. Also your physical description is very similar. I am Blonde, blue eyed, 5'3.5". I do have fair skin as I was told my background is German English. Do you know if any of the children were twins? If you see this post please feel free to reply either way. P.S. born in 1962...
Thank you for your time and good luck!!!
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