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Good day, I was adopted within my b-mothers family, after she had past away, and most of the information were known about my brothers. I have 2 brothers one older and one younger than me. I have spoken to the Registrar of adoptions and they had no means of tracing my older brother as both adoptive parents were deceased. In the meantime I have managed to get my older and younger brothers birth registration details, but the Name and Surname has been changed of both The Registrar of adoptions managed to get hold of my younger brothers adoptive parents, unfortunately they felt that they did not want us to meet as they felt that he went through enough of heartache, and trauma. I just feel that they did not give him the opportunity to decide for himself. I would love to meet both of my brothers, but don't know what to do anymore. It just feel that no where I turn has a light at the end of the tunnel. Help or support would be greatly appreciated