searching for info on lieselotte lutter birth mother from darmstadt germany late 50's

hi i am searching for any info on a woman named lieselotte lutter she was born in 1922 in ostpreusen east prussia. she later lived in germany, and had my mother and gave her up for adoption. i think she may have moved to the us in the 60's and died in norfolk va. she was possibly married to a man named hans wildhagen. she is my grandmother if anyone out there has any info on this lady please email me. she may have had other kids she gave up also, there is another woman i have had contact with who lives in hawaii and she was also the daughter of lieselotte and was given up a year prior to my mother also in germany and her father was suppose to be from italy and was somehow placed in germany at the time.