Lookin for help

I know that there have been people out therewho have been searching for long than myself (16yrs) , but come on .... I haven't found one thing that would lead me to anything .. I've done all the things that I have been told work , but still not a thing .. The funny thing is I don't know what's harder not finding anything , or the though that I might find that person that looks like me . Eek... I just need some more ideas, PLease is there anyone that can give me any insight ....