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this is my first time that i have actually got up and started searching, i have been wanting to since age 16 when i got my car and i knew i couldnt because of all the age restrictions but now i am 19 and would very much like to find them and if anyone has advice please i need it (lol :P) i was born April 8, 1985 in minneapolis mn and i was adopted about the age of 4 or 5 i have no recolection, my adoptive parents never told me anything and i am doing this with no help and i would like to fine out who and where my birthparents are because i have so many questions for them and unexplained events. if anyone reads this please post something if you have any advice on how i start on going to find them. thanks! :confused: :(
try getting your original birth certificate. That would have your birth parents names on it.
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:mad: i have it but the people that adopted me have crossed all the names out with a black marker and say i cannot have another but i do know to go to mpls to get a new one but i'd rather takem to court if they do not get me the real one first, so please there is no easy way out of this one buddy.:mad:
It would be cheaper to just go to the county and get a copy of it for yourself. Since you were born after 1977, it would be easier for you to get a copy yourself. This is how to obtain an original birth certificate in Minnesota:
Obtaining an Original Birth Certificate:
An adopted adult can request a copy of the original birth certificate. At this time the Commissioner of Human Services will attempt to locate the birth parents to obtain consent to release the original birth certificate. If each birth parent is located and consents are given, the original birth certificate will be released. If there is no reply or contact with the birth parents, for adopted adults adopted before August 1, 1977, the adopted adult must petition the court for release of the original birth certificate. If the adoption was finalized on or after August 1, 1977, then the original birth certificate will be released to the adopted adult if the birth parents have not filed an access veto.
The obc that you have - is it that one that has the black marker on it? Or is it a copy of the bc and black marker?
The reason I ask is if that sheet of paper has the marker on it, there is a possibliity you can get the names. (I did this once). Scan in the obc using a high resolution, then play with it in a photo program. There is a chance you read the name underneath.
Dude thats perfect i will try that thanx a bunch, i would have thought of that but i am usually too busy!!!
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I was just reading through here, and saw this thread....did you ever get your birth parents names???
That's rotten how your parents are acting, I was adopted at the age of 9, but my parents never hid anything from me.
Keep us posted.
P.S. I live in Coon Rapids, MN.:)