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[font=Arial Black]hello my name is leah hart and i have posted several times now. i had a question and mabe someone may be able to awesner. i want to be able to explain to my youngest son why i gave his brothers up for adoption. it just keeps coming up in my head and im afraid of recjtion. i want to be honest and true. how do i appproach this matter. any ideas ?
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Without knowing how old your son is be honest as that's probably the best thing but also let him that adoption was done out of love for them. Keeping it simple will probably be a good idea as well and just reassure him how much you love him too.
Philippa :)
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There is a book called Sam's Sister that was written for prospective birthparents to read to their children. I would aslo keep it as simple, and be as honest as you can. Make sure he knows that it is your decision, not because of something he did. (Kids think that they have the ability to make things happen just by thinking it.) Also let him know that he is staying with you.
If you want to talk more, pm me.
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wow, first of off thanks everyone for respoding. my son is only 19 months right now but i want to be prepared when he is older so i can dicuss it with him. me and my husband have shared some ideas but i feel thats its always nice to find out what others think. giving my boys up for adoption was the hardest thing to do, but it was out of great love. i can only hope they will understand and may be able to forgive. thanks for all the repiles
leah hart
[font=Arial Black]birthmother to devon and jhon
3/18/99 and 02/09/01 for the boys "
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