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hi,im new here.i hurt so much this week,he was gone ten years ago.yet it feels now like yesterday.my heart aches so bad,sometimes i cant cry,i feel lost,angry,feel i wanna scream but have no voice,no choice.hugsjoshafirstmumx
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What happened...........did you loose your child? HOLD ON, HOLD ON, HOLD ON!!!!!!!!! Just for a few minutes, will become half and hour then an hour and the severe pain and sorrow will change.........it may never leave you but that is okay.........its normal.......but the next our will be different from this one and THAT you can deal with.........HOLD ON
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Hang in there...you are half way there..and you will be able to reunite :) . i understand how you feel..i gave up my newborn daughter 1 1/2...and the pain has never left..not once!...i still have 16 1/2 years left to go...and i cant wait for this time to be over. Best of wishes to you joshuasfirstmum
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Christmas sure was hard on me too this year..i felt extremly empty and alone..especialy when i seen all the kids running around..and having fun. But i now realize that maybe one day will i will be able to spend christmas with my daughter when shes older.... If you ever need to talk i check this forum often..and all the threads.:flower:
Hey ladies!:grouphug: We love you!! I cannot and will never presume that this will help you at all but I just have to let you know how much it means to my family that you are able to share what adoption has meant for you. Because of brave parents like you who tell their stories and share their pain, my family had our first glorious Christmas with our daughter's 7-month old son. She was being pressured to make an adoption plan for him last year. But after reading about the pain of separation in adoption, my family decided that we needed to help her keep her son. She felt that she was emotionaly mature enough to be a Mom but just needed a little extra financial help and a place for her and her son to live while she finishes college. It has been hard but it was right for us. To my family, you are our angels on Earth who helped to realize that, as angry as we were with our daughter, we needed to support her decision to keep her son with her. YOU gave us unmeasurable joy. Hang on and stay positive and know that we wish with all our hearts that we could return to you all the joy that you have given us. Happy G'Ma
Im sorry for your pain.
I too have been in your place, Im the birthmom of 2. A son 22 and daughter 21. Both relinquished at birth. The holidays are especially hard. I feel your pain and understand it. Just know my thoughts are with you, and my other fellow birthmothers, not just during the holidays but all year long. You have come to the right place, so much love and support here. PM me if you like, if you just need to vent or an understanding shoulder. Tkae care. Hugs.....
Lisa
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