I need some truth

Nope, she was not - I have no idea who she is, what she is or where she is from. That is the absolute, total 110% truth. I will tell you what I *just* found out - after searching her name in my adminCP Jen has a unique IP address that belongs to tds.net based in Wisconsin - however she claims to post from Indiana (I don't know if tds provides service there or not). She has two posts on the forums [url]http://forums.adoption.com/showthread.php?p=1142182#post1142182[/url] and [url]http://forums.adoption.com/showthread.php?p=1142092#post1142092[/url] And, she's logged on today, at 2:38 AM CST Thats all I know about her - and until last week, I'd never even heard of her (when you sent me the chat log) Thats the honest truth.

For that matter - we don't "set people up"...if someone is going to mess up, they'll do it without us going thru the trouble of trying to force the issue.

thank you...my heart feels better...my brain takes a bit longer, but it will. That apparently is the common thought, of here. But I can press on. I am tired of the rumors and gossip, I will just let that all go. New chat new beginning

For the record - I have three test accounts - but they have never been used for anything other than testing. I have three because I have three PC's and I use them to test various settings with various accounts.

I didn't think "set up" was a policy at a.com, but it is the prevalent story to sooth the banned people. I see it as the story it is, and have decided to ignore it.

k :) I've got a call set up with Nathan, the owner, this afternoon. I've been getting some of the same wonderful emails - although, information that has only been shared with monitors has been shared with others - so I guess I'll have to sort that out with Nathan. I hate having a trust issue - but sadly it's there.

I havent been getting emails about whats going on in chat, so I'm not exactly sure what people are saying...but I will say this...bigmouthjen seemed "real" to me...her story was always consistant. Whats going on....are people worried now that they are being set up by us, or adoption.com? Let's hope this all blows over soon.