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Kind of at a crossroads here, a 100% of me wants to find my biological family/ be found if you will.. But through 23 yrs of looking, digging etc there has been zero and I mean Zero information.. Here I sit not wanting or needing anything from my biological family but the most simple thing, to see someone that looks like me and perhaps acts like a little too.. If after that they want to give more that would be great, but I totally understand that my existence my be less than comfortable for many involved.. So to get back to the question at hand when is enough, enough? Should I feel lucky to have a what I have and leave well enough alone, seems I can't rap my mind around this one.. :confused: adoptee from Denver 20, 1971
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I was reading this thinking to myself, "Did I write that?"I was born in Denver on July 22, 1971, and have been looking off and on since I was 16. I too, have found nothing.If anything, I would tell you to keep looking, or at least stay hopeful that it could happen. I feel the same way about finding someone that looks like me. It's not something that non-adopted people would understand.If only the courts would open the closed files for the year we were born, it'd be a lot easier to be successful.I wish you all the luck in your search. Jen
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I was reading this thinking to myself, "Did I write that?"
I was born in Denver on July 22, 1971, and have been looking off and on since I was 16. I too, have found nothing.
If anything, I would tell you to keep looking, or at least stay hopeful that it could happen. I feel the same way about finding someone that looks like me. It's not something that non-adopted people would understand.
If only the courts would open the closed files for the year we were born, it'd be a lot easier to be successful.
I wish you all the luck in your search.
Jen