Stealing food

I sometimes get hungry after dinner even if I've eaten more than usual. If you don't want him coming out of his bedroom at night, buy a door alarm. You will be able to hear whenever he opens his door and you can get up to see what he's doing. Most teen boys access porn sites on the internet whenever there is opportunity. That sounds normal to me. Take away all access to computers. If he steals from you (I'm not talking food here) make him pay you back, or work it off. The best suggestion I have to offer...Calm down or don't be a foster parent. I'm not trying to be mean, but if you get this upset by what sounds like mostly normal behavior (lying, looking at porn) then maybe this isn't right for you.