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As most of you know, I have been out of pocket the last week I was/am in the process of a very long move and just now (in the last hour) got some reliable internet connectivity at my new location.
The decision to remove the forums was one that was made for various reasons ֖ some of which have been posted. This thread is not intended to be a debate thread, a discussion thread over your dissatisfaction over the removal or even a comment thread on the removal this thread is purely for information purposesօif you have a comment youd like to make about what I am saying here, feel free. If you want to comment about the removal of the forums, the thread will be closed, as that is not the purpose of THIS thread.
First and foremost, I want you all to know that I am working as hard as I can to get things worked out on my end. No, the GLBT forum as we know it will not be coming back Җ but that doesnt mean that another GLBT forum wonҒt be put in place. I am working closely (as of today) with the owner on coming up with some type of middle grounda way we can all have a little of what we want and be happy (or at least content).
The owner of the site is very interested in providing a support forum for our GLBT adoptive parent membersŅhe recognizes that GLBT adoptive parents need a resource for support and is interested in coming up with a solution to provide that support here on the forums.
I am writing this post because I want you all to know that I am working on itI am doing the very best that I can to make sure that everyone is happy.
If you do elect to leave the forums over the decision that was made this week, I understand and I am sorry to see you goŅbut if youre leaving, there is no need to post a ґgoodbye post Җ as those threads/posts are being closed/deleted per out forum rules.
If you do elect to stay on the forums in anticipation of change then I urge to you please give me some time to work on thisօand by that, I mean, please refrain from continued discussion of the matter, which has been closedbecause every minute I spend here posting/editing/deleting/PMing is one minute I could be working on my proposal and/or discussing our options with the owner.
Trust that I am working as hard as I can to make sure that everyone here is treated with kindness and respectŅand most of all, with fairness.
Now, if you have a question about what Ive posted here, feel free to post. Please, DO NOT turn this into a bashing/attacking thread and please DO NOT turn this into a venting thread over the loss of the forum. I know, IҒm working on it, and Id like to use this thread as a means to keep you all informed҅and I cant do that if the thread gets closed.
Thank you all for your time, patience and understanding in this matter҅
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Any communication that you would like sent to the owner can be sent to admin@familyforums.com
Keep in mind - we are only taking comments from registered users - I've had several emails from non-registered email addresses and as passionate as those are (and some, just downright nasty and abusive, so I know why they're hiding!) those won't be forwarded to anyone.
If you have a comment you would like to make, feel free to send it along!
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I have been a long-time lurker. Read through the posts yesterday, was ready to follow all of you elsewhere...but here you are!Can we not just get the direct quote from the forum, which resulted in the closer? Then we all know the reason, speculation ceases and we all get back to our own issues.As a Lesbian LDS (mormon) birthmother who relinguished through LDS family services I've been very interested in this situation.Although I no longer affiliate myself with this church, my family does. I am aware of issues of dogma. Also of personnal conviction.I see most of you are still here rehashing the point. Do you not have the courage of your convictions to act on your righteous anger? Leave the site if you believe this is about human rights.I'm going to wait a short while for the outcome of this 'working out'.I do think we are entitled to a full discloser of the offending post... It is not enough to do no evil, you must be seen to do no evil.Manipulation and behind the scenes mechanation are not my favourite things. I would like an open, honest, disclosure of this matter; in a timely manner.I really hope this gets resolved soon (is there any idea of the time-frame?).It's stange, I never went to the now closed forum...but I miss it! Wierd, eh? (yes...I'm Canadian,eh...)Hope to have all of you to talk to , now that I've finally gotten in here!
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Brandy~` I hope this can be resolved soon also. This site has literally saved my life, not to mention the many new friends and "family" that have been formed here. Thank you for all your efforts. You are truly one amazing woman to be able to deal with all of this, and during a move of your own ?? :eek: Just goes to show what kind of SPECIAL folks we have here. Would hate to lose something this valuable over "politics". And thank you also for keeping us informed. You are INCREDIBLE !!:clap: :grouphug:
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