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Well my story is kinda long and confusing, but I'll do my best to explain. I'm 26 y/o. Me and My ex dated for 6 years and broke up a year a half ago mainly due to me not wanting to grow up. My ex is actually one of my bestest friends since we broke up. I started dating my current boyfriend in October. I really love this guy (or at least I thought). I found out I was pregnant March 3rd and now i'm 10 weeks. Well, a few weeks before I found out I was pregnant I started to relealize I still had strong feelings for my ex. And i'm falling out of love with my current boyfriend very fast. This may really get confusing. Well, I told my ex how I felt cause I don't to live with the what if's. I knew he still loved me. He at first told me he couldn't be with me with another mans baby. Which I completely understood. Recently he told me that if thing did not work out with my babies father that we could get back together, but I had to try things with him first. Well I'm trying to make things work between me and my babies father, but I don't want to be around him and he really is getting on my nerves. I don't wanna raise my baby in a relationship without love. Weird part is whenever I look into the future with my baby i see 1. With the babies dad having a unhappy stressfull life and 2. With my ex happy, vacations, house , love everything I want.
I thought about adoption but, I think I am the only one in both our familes that thinks having this baby isn't the best thing.
I know this is long, but I just need someone to talk to that won't judge me.
Thanks.
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Hi Jenna, First off Welcome to the forums, you will find lots of great people here and alot of advice!! I am always available to lend an ear if ya need to talk, sounds like you have a pretty serious situation on your hands!;) Do you want to parent your baby? I know for me it was scary thinking of being a single Mommy, just rememeber it can be done! Please PM me if you would like to chat!
P.S. Congrats on becoming a Mom
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Follow your heart. Do your research and do not let anyone talk you into something you dont' want to do. (((HUGS)))
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Follow your heart is good advice... I'd also tell you that although you need to think about it, you will have to make up your mind, because should you choose abortion, time is running out... Good luck
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Jenna,
You need to put yourself and your unborn baby first so make sure you get good, unbiased advice. My best wishes go to you so that you are able to make the best decision for yourself.
Pip :wings:
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Jenna,
Good luck. Are you able to parent this baby alone right now? Because you don't have to stay with the babies dad. If you ex is still around once you and the baby get settled maybe you can try again..he may warm up to the idea of raising 'another man's baby' Or, it might be a huge issue between you forever.
I agree, follow your heart and do what's best for you and the baby...
Best of luck!
Michelle
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If I were you I'd stop taking the guys into consideration for a moment and contimplate whats best for you and your child because regardless of the decision you make there is no guarantee either guy will be around in the long run I dont say this to be mean but because a large part of my decision was based on a guy who is no longer around. Also it's great you family thinks your pregnancy is great but YOU are the one who will be carrying the baby so dont let them pressure you although you can put there support on the prolist if you should decide to parent. Good luck.
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