How often do birth mothers change their minds?

this is a super rare situation. this happened to '2nd time around' (i saw she posted) and i recall another case where there was a dna situation. BUT these are rare. we too had a Rare situation happen to us in which our little referral passed away. in both my agency and my hs agency we were one of two people in the history of each agency in which a child was lost to death. i say this not to scare you, but to say, these are such rare cases that i remember who had what sad event happen to them! its that rare. BUT, i would also encourage you to attach with as loose of arms as possible for as long as you can. its not 'good to go' until it's ALL good to go and youre on your way home! while this is not a 'happy go lucky' post, it is reality. focus on the positive, plan for your little one, but keep as close a gaurd on your heart as you can. most likely all will be fine. Im now home with my little daughter, dpline is home with her two kids, 2ndtimearound is enjoying her little girl... the list goes on even in the wake of seemingly unending pain... it ends with a happy heart! in the words of another, "keep the faith" :) cris...feeling a bit too realistic tonight....sorry....