References (cross posted)?!

March 17, 2014

I am curious as to what questions the agency will ask my references?!

Also, will 1 out of 4 bad references hurt my chances of adopting?! I am sooo worried...

Somebody who I thought was a close friend, has turned on me after I submitted her name... All because I told her I would not adopt her baby she is pregnant with now, I want to adopt an older child... I am very worried.... Please help!

ChinaAndTheStars

March 17, 2014

Have you told or been upfront with your Agency about the Negative Referral??

I wouldn't worry about the disagreement, but I would tell your Agency to expect this!!

I would also tell your other References. That the Agency will be calling!!

Juli